Every MRA started out with LOVE… and was burned

Shack: from van Rooinek in the comments on Dalrocks latest post:

 Guys don’t turn MRA because they hate women – they turn MRA because they loved women, and their love was repaid with hatred. This hatred could be expressed in decades of baseless and rude rejection — being passed over in favor of bad boys — losing kids, home, and even freedom in an ujustified divorce… being cheated on…. many things could be the trigger.

But every MRA started out with LOVE… and was burned.

Wow, typically I leave the emotional response to the women, but this is the flip side of Keoni Galt’s post on Justified Anger (see below)  It hurts just thinking about the suffering and unrequited love that is the kick in the manhood of probably every red pill man in the interwebz that enabled them to swallow the bitter pill.  This hits a little too close to home for comfort, although in my case I found Athol Kay in time.  Women accuse men of not having feelings, when the truth of the matter is that they, perhaps unwittingly in the charitable cases, ruthlessly crush innocent “nice” — that is to say Beta– love.  Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and they WILL get more of what they incentivise with it.  Women seem to understand emotion better …I challenge Christian men and MRA to use emotion, the women’s favorite tactic, or perhaps better stated as what they understand best, in any attempt to help them understand.  Probably they will just ‘out emotion’ any attempt at this understanding.  Ah well, hope springs eternal.  All of this should make people upset, as Keoni Galt said:

How about fucking furious?

I’ll pose the same question back to Ms. Duffy and the commenters who are troubled by the fact that people are angry with the gross injustice which is being done to men, children, and the very institution of marriage: Why don’t you care? Why aren’t you angry?

Anger at a system and a society that indoctrinates us all to believe that we live in the greatest civilization in the history of mankind because we are a society founded on freedom and justice…and yet you wake up one day and SEE quite plainly the destruction and havoc it wreaks on the personal lives of the people you know and love.

You bet the denizens that make up this thing we call the “manosphere” are angry.

To not feel anger at the current situation is inhuman.


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3 Responses to Every MRA started out with LOVE… and was burned

  1. van Rooinek says:

    I’m gratified that my posting resonated enough to be considered worthy of further discussion.

    I should point out, though, that my story eventually had a happy ending… I’ve been happily married for 10 years now, 3 kids… pure joy. But I married, and lost my virginity, at TWICE the age I’d hoped to (38 instead of 19), and those decades of rejection leave a mark that doesn’t fade easily. So when I look back at my single days, or when I see/hear/read of the struggles of single men now, the memory of the pain comes rushing back. I hope some of what I share, is useful to others.

    Fortunately for my wife, I’m a Christian. I don’t hold her responsible for the crimes of other women, and I never got bitter at “women in general” (only at Christian women /evil grin>). Not so my Dad — he rejected God as a young man. And, being a technical nerd like me, he was treated in the same crappy manner that I was. So, by the time he finally found a woman, he hated women, and Mom had to deal with that smoldering bitterness for 35 years. He was faithful, non-abusive, and a good provider and father– a legacy of his conservative Christian upbringing — but something was ruined in the core of his soul. I think women killed it, and Christ wasn’t invited in to bring it back to life.

  2. van Rooinek says:

    how did I double up on a word? copy paste is weird sometimes.

  3. Omnipitron says:

    So very true, and that is the very reason why so many men are angry!! The angriest of men are the very ones who opened themselves up in an attempt to alleviate the suffering women felt only to have vitriol and hate as their reward.

    Yes…that will make you angry after a time. No doubt about it!!!

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